Having problems with your Thai lady? Do you understand the Thai Bar Girl Game? There a many different reasons why you might be having problems. Cultural misunderstandings, lack of trust, lack of freedom, jealousy are a few. We’re hired often to investigate Thai girls with foreigners as boyfriends or husbands.
Many times, the guy has met a girl in a bar. She swears up and down she doesn’t want to work there but has no choice because she has to take care of the family. and a lot of the time this is true, well most of it is anyway. But, there are also a lot of girls who work as prostitutes in go go bars who are very bad news. Many are drug addicted scammers whose main goal is to find western men to supply her with spending money. Many men support her drug habit without knowing it. Most men end up buying her the latest mobile phone, designer clothes, car or motorbike. Welcome to the Thai Bar Girl Game.
These bad news girls are the ones you have to be on the lookout for. There are thousands of them operating out of Thailand’s notorious go go bar scene. If you met a girl in Thailand who was working in a bar, she may very well still be working there. She is telling you she quit to keep you quiet and to keep the cash flow coming. It is possible she did quit. But, unless you have her checked out you can’t know for sure. Many of these girls have more than one man on the hook at one time. We usually find that they have several. Most of the guys are unaware of the fact that they are being played. The reason is that these girls are masters of manipulation and guilt.
They have a story for every problem that may arise. Stories including water got in phone, I was sleeping, I was in the shower, I was at Mama’s house way out in the boonies. Or, upcountry there is no phone signal, buffalo broke leg, you name it, the excuse is there. The fact is that many times they are telling the truth, but too often we find their story isn’t the truth at all. The reason she can’t pick up the phone is because you will hear the background music in the disco she is in. Not all Thai women are like this though and in fact there are a many very good girls who are working in bars. But, they haven’t been there long enough to become the hardcore bar girl yet.
Does this mean all Thai ladies who work in bars are dirty rotten scammers? Of course not, and in fact, some of the girls who work in bars are very good girls. Many of them don’t have much of a choice. The join the bar scene for a short period of time to make some money to help take care of family. The problem arises when they spend too much time in the bar, then you have a problem. You aren’t going to find the girl of your dreams working in a go go bar. But, there have been many success stories of guys who have met girls in bars living happy lives. We don’t often hear of that these days. Times have changed and so has the attitude of many Thai girls who work in bars.
So, what can you do? First of all, don’t go looking for a sweet and innocent Thai lady in a go go bar because chances are you aren’t going to find her. If you’re fascinated with Thai women and want to meet a good Thai lady, try going to regular bars or clubs. Go where normal Thai people go. But remember, you will be much better off if you have a Thai friend who can go with you and act as your liaison. Especially if you want to meet good Thai ladies, of which there are many! So, don’t ogle and act like a sex tourist because you will get nowhere. Pubs are a good place to start as there are many Thai women fascinated with foreign men.