Thai Bar Girl Scams – Thai Girlfriend Problems
Thai Bar Girl Scams. You’ve just landed in Bangkok. It’s hot as hell and you need something cold to drink. Hmm, a cold beer might be nice. The first thing you notice when you are walking along the streets of Thailand is all the bars full of hot young Thai girls. You pull up a chair at one of the bars and instantly become a celebrity. Soft skin, dark eyes, long jet black hair, hot little body. Your sucked in and now the ride really starts. You’ve fallen instantly in love. And now beware of Thai Bar Girl Scams.
She’s a young, fun and a beautiful girl, who reluctantly came to town from a farming village in Thailand’s rural northeastern region. She’s just as blown on you as you are on her. She is with you just as much as you are with her. You both fall instantly in love. But, she works at a go-go bar. Now of course she has only been there for two months. She doesn’t really want to be there but has no choice. You see, Papa needs an operation. The family buffalo broke a leg and can’t plow the fields. Plus she is just dying to advance her life but needs money for school. An of course, she is poor. Boo hoo. Life is so incredibly hard here in Thailand as she sucks down another lady drink. That you just paid for.
Your long lost love
Now of course, she’s just the cashier and doesn’t go with customers for sex at all. Not unless she meets a “really special” man. A special man just like you. And then the arrow strikes. You’ve fallen for a Thai Bar Girl. The nest 10 days are heaven on earth. You pay her bar fine to keep her off work for the next ten days. Together you travel to the beach and spend your holiday in bliss. Only for it to end far too soon. The tearful goodbye at Suvanabhumi airport is almost too much to handle. But fear not! You’ll be back in 6 months.
You message and call her as often as you can. You stare at her sms messages… I love you too much! I miss you too much! However, you can’t wait for your next trip to Thailand to see her again. Every day is a lonely one, a long one. But you get through knowing every day that passes means you’ll soon be with her.
Then out of nowhere, disaster strikes! The family’s buffalo’s leg has healed. But now it is sick. So sick the vet says it might die and the treatment will cost a small fortune. Way more than they can afford! And if that wasn’t enough, Papa had a heart attack! Now he is in the hospital and no money to pay the bills. The family farm is in grave danger! She’s tried to ask other family members for money. But they are dirt poor too. What will she do?
The ugly truth
You are her last hope! Without your help, her family will be in a terrible situation! Destitute and no way to turn, she pleads for your help. Like a comic book hero you spring to the rescue. Farang Bah (stupid foreigner) to the rescue! You copy down her info and head straight to the nearest Western Union office to save the day.
Except, of course, that the buffalo isn’t sick. They don’t even own a buffalo. She’s not really a cashier either and she’s probably asking her two or three other foreign “boyfriends” for the same amount of money. She’s probably even sitting at the bar right now joking about it with her Thai boyfriend. You remember. Tik, that guy you met with her once or twice and she said was her cousin. Congratulations! You’ve just joined the club. The club of thousands of others foreign men who have been duped by a Thai Bar Girl Scam.
Not my girl! Yes, you want so bad to believe that, but somewhere deep down you feel the truth. Fear not oh mighty hero. You aren’t the first and you won’t be the last. There is a trail as long as the eye can see of those who have fallen before you. Those brave heroes who came to the rescue of the Thai maiden in distress. Long did they fight and provide to save their little Thai princess. Only to discover far too late that they were victims of the notorious Thai Bar Girl scam. Just like the last guy, and the guy before him. And the guy before him, and on and on. The best of the best are no match for the crafty Thai Bar Girl Scams. Thai Bar Girls are experts at manipulating your thoughts and emotions.
As a Thailand Private Investigator we can sum it up for you in two words. The Game. We call it “the game” because that is exactly what it is. A game of wits, manipulation, lies, greed, and gain. Except you are always going to be the one who loses. The gain is always and only hers. The Thai Bar Girl Scam is something we work on almost every day. In 16 years as a Thailand Private Investigator I know the game well. I see it played out every day on those unsuspecting punters in the bars of Thailand. A hot young thing in one hand and a bottle of Singha beer in the other. And in their eyes is the dream. The dream that will one day soon become a living nightmare.
I’ve handled hundreds and hundreds of cases involving the game. In every case the foreign man loses. That’s just the way the game is setup. As in Vegas, in Thailand the house always wins in the long run. In this case the house is the Thai Bar Girl Scam. This doesn’t mean that every girl working in a bar in Thailand is a bad girl. Some of them are good and are truly in a dire situation and need help. If handled correctly you could meet a girl in a bar in Thailand and end up in a happy relationship. But only if you play the game right.
Hire a Thailand Private Investigator
That is where we come in. You are always going to benefit from having the girl checked out first. It is just common sense. Your best bet is to hire a Thailand Private Investigator to check out her story first. Before you start throwing cash around. Far too often we receive investigation requests from men who have already invested thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of dollars in the Thai princess. Only to find out too late that they were being scammed all along. Be smart. Hire a Thailand Private Detective first. You’ll be making a much better investment if you let us check her out first. The Thai Bar Girl Scams can be costly.
So, how do you know if you have met a good Thai lady?
Positive signs from your Thai girlfriend:
- Calls you often and is home when you call, or picks up her mobile phone when you call.
- Met in a pub popular with Thai people, restaurant, shopping mall, city park, fitness center, through business contacts, etc.
- Doesn’t constantly ask you for cash.
- Comes from a good Thai family
- Has a regular job and is college educated.
- Didn’t meet her in a go go bar, beer bar, or disco known to be frequented by freelance prostitutes.
The Thai Bar Girl Scams:
- Met in a go go bar, disco, outdoor beer bar, or Soi 7 beer garden.
- Doesn’t answer the phone or her mobile when you call.
- Hides her mobile from you when you are there, or moves to another room when someone calls.
- Asks you for money for various reasons. Father needs operation, Sister needs to go to school, phone broke, buffalo broke leg etc.
- Hearing other men’s voices in the background when you call her mobile.
- Hearing loud disco music in the background when you call her at 2:00 AM Thai time.
- Wanting to know your exact arrival date to Thailand weeks or months before you arrive.
- Doesn’t have a regular job.
- Disappears for days on end and then says she was at Mama’s house, or at the Temple.
- Anything dealing with criminal activity, drug use, etc.
Possible reasons for Thai girlfriend problems:
- Has your Thai lady/girlfriend ever worked in a bar, go go bar, beer garden?
- Is she still working in a bar, go go bar or other nightlife establishment in Thailand?
- Was your Thai lady/girlfriend working in a bar, go go bar, or other nightlife establishment when you met her?
- Does your Thai lady/girlfriend seem unavailable on the phone often?
- Does your Thai lady/girlfriend try to hide her mobile phone from you when you are around?
- Thai lady/girlfriend seem to always have conflicting stories?
- Do her stories that change all the time and seem to be unreasonable?
- Does your Thai lady/girlfriend have lots of nice designer clothes, a new fancy mobile phone, lots of gold?
- Does your Thai lady/girlfriend have more than one E-mail address or many user ID’s on Thai dating sites?
Reasons you may want to hire a Thailand PI:
There are many reasons you might consider hiring a Thailand Private Detective to help you resolve any Thai Girlfriend problems you may be having The above mentioned reasons are just a few of the warning signs. But, at times these things do happen (leaving the phone at home, dead battery, phone got rained on). But these things are only likely to happen once.
If you suspect your Thai Girlfriend is up to no good and you want to get revenge on her and ask us for help, you won’t get it. But, if you are having problems with your Thai lady, we can help. If you’re concerned something may be going on, contact us. When she isn’t being honest or cooperative, please feel free to contact us. Let us help you discover the truth of the matter with facts and evidence. Then you can decide what you want to do.
Contact Us right now. We can help.